No 28: Top Secret

Today I met up with my friend Heidi for coffee.

Actually, it was green tea, but I like to refer to it as coffee even though I don’t drink coffee and haven’t done so in more than a decade.

Heidi is 58 and a senior nurse on a busy gastro ward.  She is super-experienced, super-kind, and super-funny and everyone loves her.

Heidi has no menopausal symptoms at all. 

Not even one.

A doctor she works with told her to keep it quiet.

“Under wraps” he said

“Top secret” he said

“Or you could gain enemies.” 

These were his exact words.

And I wanted to cry.

This has to be one of the most peculiar things I have ever heard. 

What a peculiar world we live in.

And what a very peculiar doctor. 

I hope I never need to see him.

The end.

Jackie x

(shared from my old diaries)

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